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    Spencer Kappenman

    MS, NCC, LPC-QMHP

    Meaningful connection is fundamental to a fulfilling life.

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    Spencer Kappenman
    About

    The journey forward is inward.

    Meaningful connection is fundamental to a fulfilling life. Yet, this connection can be disrupted—by unexpected loss, relational conflict, or difficult decisions that leave us feeling ungrounded. My work is rooted in the belief that healing begins with restoring these connections: to ourselves, to our relationships, and to our communities.

    I work with teens and adults experiencing life transitions, attachment challenges, neurodivergent experiences (including ADHD and autism), relationship difficulties, identity exploration, and provide LGBTQ+ affirming care. I strive to create a safe, inclusive, and nonjudgmental space where clients feel seen, supported, and empowered to grow.

    I believe therapy isn't about fixing something that's broken—it's about making space for healing, growth, and deeper understanding. My approach is collaborative and client-centered—I meet you where you are and walk alongside you at your own pace. There are no expectations or prerequisites for healing. You are welcome just as you are.

    “I believe therapy isn't about fixing something that's broken—it's about making space for healing, growth, and deeper understanding.”

    — Spencer Kappenman

    Who I Work With

    The people I'm honored to walk alongside.

    TeensAdultsIndividualsCouplesLGBTQ+
    Areas of Focus

    What I help people work through.

    Life TransitionsAttachment ChallengesADHDAutismRelationship DifficultiesIdentity ExplorationNeurodivergent ExperiencesAnxietyDepressionStress
    Therapeutic Approaches & Modalities

    Exploring the deeper roots of emotional and relational patterns to foster self-understanding, healing, and lasting change.

    Psychodynamic & Psychoanalytic TherapySchema TherapyEmotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential & Humanistic TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Interpersonal Therapy (IPT)Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)Strengths-Based & Trauma-Focused Approaches
    My approach to counseling is integrative, trauma-informed, relational, and focused on helping clients better understand themselves and the experiences that have shaped their lives. I draw from psychodynamic, schema-based, emotionally focused, existential, humanistic, cognitive behavioral, and interpersonal approaches to explore underlying beliefs, unmet emotional needs, and recurring patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships. I also incorporate mindfulness, attachment-based perspectives, and practical strategies that support emotional regulation and meaningful behavioral change. Together, we work to deepen self-awareness, strengthen emotional flexibility, build healthier relationships, and create sustainable growth that aligns with your values and sense of self.
    Education & Credentials

    Trained, supervised, and continually learning.

    • Master of Science (MS)
    • National Certified Counselor (NCC)
    • Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)
    • Qualified Mental Health Professional (QMHP)
    Trust & VerificationVerified by Psychology Today
    Ready to Begin?

    The first step is the hardest. I'll meet you there.

    Whether you're ready to schedule, or you have questions first, I'd be glad to hear from you. Reach out and we'll find the right next step together.

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